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Comment on Long Distance Relationships…the Pros and the Cons by Jake

Jake — Sat, 26 Sep 2009 08:04:42 +0000

Just wanted to let you know that this is a wonderful article. I am living in Germany for a year away from my girlfriend in the states. Everything mentioned will really help to make this work out.

Also, for long distance cupples, there is an amazing product to save you expensive phone bills. Its called the magic jack. You pay 40 for the device and 20 a year and its unlimited calling to anyone in the states. Hope this will help someone.

Thanks again for the great article.

Comment on Long Distance Relationships…the Pros and the Cons by Kamilah

Kamilah — Sun, 20 Sep 2009 07:07:35 +0000

My long distance relationship ended about 10 months ago. He was the man of my dreams, and I still love him very much. We were engaged before things fell apart. Unfortunately, we had some miscommunication and he stone-walled me- we were down to talking about 10 mins a week. Then he didn’t acknowledge my graduation (when I was present at his) and I was so hurt I sent back the ring. It was over. But the pain lingers to this day. I don’t know if I will embark on another one, because as rewarding as it may be, I think it may be too

Comment on Peeking into the Brains – Man Vs. Woman by Emilija Nestorova

Emilija Nestorova — Tue, 08 Sep 2009 20:22:22 +0000

find the differences

Comment on “He Doesn’t Love Me Anymore…” by Yolonda

Yolonda — Tue, 08 Sep 2009 16:30:57 +0000

My relationship is done, my ex doesn’t love me anymore after almost a year. I gave it my all now I’m the one sitting here with the crushed heart while he’s having fun not thinking about me and flirting with other girls. Its hard for me to not think about it and it makes me sick to my stomach. I am giving up on love I can’t take the pain I rather be alone.

Comment on A Man Who Sends Mixed Signals by Me

Me — Sun, 16 Aug 2009 02:18:12 +0000

I know exactly what you mean…I’m going through this as well…He acts like he cares and when I tell him I like him, he says he’s not sure he likes me at all. Really pisses me off. I think it’s time I just walk away.

Comment on A Man Who Sends Mixed Signals by geneviva lang

geneviva lang — Thu, 06 Aug 2009 05:59:00 +0000

HoneyBee on March 17, 2008 showed much insight

Comment on “He Doesn’t Love Me Anymore…” by Sarah

Sarah — Tue, 04 Aug 2009 02:32:05 +0000

I am 42, and head over heels in something with a man whom I adore … and this is excellent advice. It is so easy to forget. Thanks

Comment on A Man Who Sends Mixed Signals by Edie

Edie — Thu, 02 Jul 2009 15:50:30 +0000

I just came through a mixed signals experience. One of those guys you hit it off, like him, find him attractive and interesting. There’s an age difference, so he poses the question “Have you ever hooked up with a younger guy before?” The hook up didn’t take place because of timing and the fact that I have never been into sex with anonymous (or close to it) strangers. Yes, I’m one of those freaks who likes to incorporate conversation into a fling and I guess that puts me into the friends with benefits category. He claimed to have really liked me and to be interested in that type of — dare I say — relationship. Of course once it became clear that being friends with benefits meant actually building a friendship and not maintaining an aloof distance where you don’t even exchange email addresses, he quickly lost interest. Oh, and just for good measure, Mr. “Age difference doesn’t really matter to me” tossed in wanting children that I most likely wouldn’t or couldn’t have as the deal breaker.

I’m still somewhat dazed and confused on when a sexual escapade turned into planning for a future with kids. He might be in for the coveted Mixed Signals of the Year Award on that one!

Comment on A Man Who Sends Mixed Signals by glen b

glen b — Tue, 21 Apr 2009 01:14:04 +0000

Great article. I wish I read this 7 years ago before drooling over a guy for that long when all he’d do is throw me treats from time to time to ensure that I stuck around. Could never make up his mind. Its pretty selfish, and what does it do to a girl- makes her insecure…maybe if I lost weight, gained weight, fixed my hair different etc he’ll be committed. Its actually selfishness or greediness…..he’s not sure what he wants so he keeps it all close, but never gives his all to any of them, boosts his confidence while it keeps you down. For all I know, thats not love. He still does it, shows up seasonally…i miss you, cant live without you, lets catch up….. i want to see you..shares some of his most significant occasions (graduation, etc) with u …..then he dissapears….then shows up then dissapears.. has been going on for almost a century. The game is like.. I like you but theres so much in the world I want to see and at the end of the day when they dont satisfy I want to come back to you…..Its emotionally draining… finally I stopped replying to his calls, emails etc……..I’ve wasted enough of my time. I really like how you put it ” An intelligent woman simply does not put her life (and happiness) on hold because of a man. ” Thankfully I didnt put my life away, but I cant count the amount of hours when I coudlnt work/ do things I needed to do because I was fixated on him…. Interestingly I think I picked up his habits. Id ont really want ot date anyone these days (or havent met him)When we get close, I realize I enjoy their company but dont want a relationship/dont find that spark. I try to make it clear or to withdraw so I dont do to them what another did to me. I’m praying to God to help me find satisfaction within, to be content and happy with myself so I can concentrate on what I have to do and not jump on any tallyho bandwagon that comes down the road.

Comment on Why I Want a Wife by squids_ink

squids_ink — Sat, 18 Apr 2009 02:17:19 +0000

“And I want a wife who understands that my sexual needs may entail more than strict adherence to monogamy.”

What’s this?
You want your wife to be ok with you sleeping with other woman?

There is no faithfulness there…I don’t think your wife would like that idea.,