Love or Compatibility?

It started with Jasmine’s proposal to Honey Bee to date some older women for research and blogging purposes:
Jasmine: well… since dating older women is a popular trend now, i was just curious to know how it’s like. I thought you would too.
Honey bee: why don’t u date a schoolboy and find out?
Jasmine: i would…but [...]

Girl Earns More Than the Guy…

My close friend, Alice, is having a cold war with her hubby, and it has lasted for two weeks now. The issue? MONEY. She got promoted at work and now she makes more ‘blink blink’ than he does.
Who knew a little extra money could create such a rife?
No doubt, money is a reality and a [...]

Is He a for Keeps? 10 Qualities of an Ideal Guy

1.) Optimistic and Great Sense of Humor
He has a positive outlook on life, even when things aren’t bright and sunny. He always makes you laugh with his great sense of humor. Most of the time, he is someone who is very fun and enjoyable to be with.
2.) Faithful/Loyal and Committed
He is someone who is [...]

How to Tell a Girl That You Like Her

You have known a girl for a while or you’ve just met a girl and think that she’s the one. You want to tell her you like her. Before you take the plunge, here are some things you might want to consider:
1. Prepare yourself. Do whatever it takes to make you feel confident of yourself. [...]

Should a Woman Ask a Guy Out On a Date?

There are two differing schools of thought on this. The first school advocates that the GUY should take the first initiatives and should call and ask the girl for a date.
The other school, more apparent in recent times, has a more liberal view where either party may the first move, depending on the situation.
What if [...]

What Is Charisma?

The Edge was a movie I saw 10 years ago. Alec Baldwin was in it. He is a brilliant performer and his presence dominated the screen from the very beginning. Right until the moment Anthony Hopkins appeared on screen, where his overwhelming presence seemed to overshadowed everyone, including Baldwin.
What does Hopkins, 60, has over Baldwin, [...]

Long Distance Relationships…the Pros and the Cons

“Oceans apart, day after day and I slowly go insane, I hear your voice on the line but it doesn’t stop the pain.
I see you next to never, how can we say forever”
Richard Marx’s rendition of Right Here Waiting speaks volumes for long distance relationships.
But, just like other kinds of relationships, I believe long distance [...]

Am I In Love With Her?

Mr. K confided in me about a girl he is crazy about. He longs to see this girl all the time and thinks of her all day long. He has known her for 10 years now, since puberty.He showered praises about her and wants her to be his girl friend. Thank you K, for your [...]

10 Things a Girl Does When She is Into You

1.) She seems to appear around you or in front of you “coincidentally” a lot. She wants you to notice her. [You bumped into her at your favorite Starbucks three days in a row. Or "Didn't I just see her down the hallway a minute ago? Why do I see her in the library now, [...]

The Young and Dangerous(ly Stupid)

It was a guy’s night out and a while back since the three of us sat down for a chat like this. It was a place that you can have steak and other western style food. The place is so popular that it is packed and tables go all the way out to the five [...]

The Art of Text Messaging (SMS) – DOs and DON’Ts for Couples In Love

DO send your loved one a text message (SMS):
1.) when you are thinking of him/ her. A sweet note (e.g. I miss you; I love you; Be safe and etc.) always put a smile on someone’s face and make his/ her day.
2.) when you have a feeling that he/she may not wish to talk because [...]

10 Things a Guy Does When He Is Into You

Women are usually more sensory acute than men. They are more intuitive in detecting emotions and when a guy is interested. But there are times that you will meet a guy who is overly shy and discreet in expressing his feelings.
For the ladies out there who are curious (and sometimes clueless) as to how a [...]

First Date Conversation

I was bored one afternoon and decided to grab something to read from my bookshelf. It turned out to be a relationship self-help book which I received from a friend for Christmas a few years ago. It was one of those bargain “pick-me-up” books (with a 70% discount) that the bookstore just couldn’t wait to [...]

Fast Cars and Wannabes

It is quite unavoidable to meet some wannabe roadsters while driving in a metropolitan city like Kuala Lumpur. The guys in their “cool” cars with large spoilers and large exhaust. Weaving in and out of traffic like one of the characters from the movie Initial D.
Challenging other drivers at the traffic lights. Sigh…what would KL [...]

The Diary of a “Seduction Guru”

This is an account of Johnson, a thirty something bachelor who makes his living running seminars. Recently, he launched himself as a seduction guru and charging a tidy sum to teach people on the art of seduction.
This is a brief account of one suave and debonair seduction guru from the perspective of one of his [...]

Love and Honor

Love and Honor is the title of the most recent samurai flick that I have watched. Bushi no Ichibun, [the Japanese title which means 'part of being a warrior'], is the third installment of a Yoji Yamada’s samurai based on Shuhei Fujisawa’s novels. The story is about Shinojo Mimura, a low ranking samurai during the [...]

How To Trim Nostril Hair

 
THINGS YOU’LL NEED:
Mirror
Scissors
Nostril Hair Trimmers
 
Step 1
Stand in front of a mirror with a pair of small scissors in your hand.
 
Step 2
Lean your head back slightly and tug up the edge of one nostril.
 
Step 3
Carefully clip away any extraneous hair with the scissors. Clip the hair close to its base, if possible.
Step 4
Look in the mirror [...]

Grooming Tips for Men (Part 1)

1. Dressing up
Decent, presentable clothes will do. You don’t need to go out and get an Armani. Not even if your date is Halle Berry [substitute with the name of your favorite celeb]. Choose fitting clothes. I know a lot of skinny people who like to wear two shirts just to look bulkier. It doesn’t [...]

Can You See a Rainbow from Your Place?

 
I received a text message from a friend earlier this evening, asking if I could see a rainbow from my place. It got me so excited that I immediately opened the blue curtains in my room and looked outside from the window. Then I quickly ran outside to the garden, searching for a colorful rainbow [...]

We Need Our Space…

How pathetic possessive can your friend get, Jasmine? We men need our space and some downtime where we just retreat back to our ‘cave’ and do guy stuff. Your friend should chill out and not overreact.
Don’t expect a guy to whisper sweet nothings all the time and send SMSes, phone calls, etc. Relationship moves [...]